Tips For The Best Sex

Sex! everyone is just having sex with everybody now and days. Has your sex life gone stale? Between kids, work, the economy and other pressures, steamy sex may seem like a fantasy. Sweaty bodies, tangled sheets, moaning… is not all what sex is.

When you’re in bed and making love, your partner’s not worried about any little imperfections a woman might have. Women have an average of four sex partners in their lifetime. Whatever your number, you’re neither a slut nor prude. As long as you feel good about yourself, pack protection and avoid embarrassing YouTube videos.

There are a lot of ridiculous standards out there about how women should be or look or act,” says Michele Sugg, a certified sex therapist in Branford, Conn. “Let all that go. Reality is, men are turned on by you. Your partner will be aroused by seeing you turned on.

Fish oil reduces inflammation, blood pressure and dangerous LDL cholesterol. But guess what? It also opens up those teeny blood vessels down there. Fish oils boost the testosterone in your body - yes, women have this hormone too - so “you notice your arousal more quickly.”

There can be emotional reasons for painful sex, particularly for women who’ve been raised in religious households or who’ve been sexually abused or raped." If you haven’t been feeling as frisky as you want, talk to your doctor about whether your prescriptions could be putting the chill on your libido.

Only about 30% of women reach orgasm through penetration alone. That means a whopping 70% of us need hands-on help to cross the finish line.“It’s not all up to your partner,” Sugg says. “Share the responsibility and take on pieces of your own sexual pleasure.”

He may not want you telling him how to drive, but he’ll appreciate direction about what pleases you. Still not getting it? Take him by the hand and lead him down the path of your pleasure. Show him specifically where and how (lightly, firmly, slowly, quickly) you like to be touched.

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Talking To Kids About Sex

I was never mentored as a child about sex, so I feel this is my opportunity to help the young teens know what is to come. I understand that my folks could have indeed done better with the subject of my body and sex education. It saddens me when I hear ridiculous tales and riddles parents tell their children these days on the matter of sex.

Talking with children about sex and sexuality may be uncomfortable at first, but it gets easier with time and practice. What many fail to realize is that children will still get this information, but more often than not, they will get absolutely wrong ideas and details, and these details in turn will shape their attitudes and orientation toward sex.

The talk os sex is one that parents often put off as long as possible. But learning about sexuality is a normal part of child development. The French aren't paragons of sex education. Though schools are required to teach it. Now and days, you have to take on the conversation about sex early in life.

Parents these days need to accept that we live in a highly sexualized environment, where our children are exposed to sexual language, images, and behaviors before they are even developmentally prepared to handle them. As a parent, you are the best person to educate your child about sexuality.

Therefore, they need to be fed with the right information. As a parent, you can make a difference in your child’s life as to whether they will have the right sexual principles and values. Talk with your kids, develop strong relationships with them, and help them set clear boundaries and expectations about sex and their bodies.

Give up on the idea of presenting the subject in one big talk, you'll overwhelm your child with more bewildering and even distasteful satisfaction. As a parent, your child should understand the possible consequences of being sexually active, including pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, and even the emotional baggage that comes with sexual exposure.

Many parents fear that if they talk to their children about sex, that’ll make them want to do it. More often than not, though, that is not true. It’s important for children to understand what sexual feelings and relationships are before they become sexually active. That way, they have a full awareness of what they are getting in to. Studies have shown that children who have discussed sex with their parents are more likely to wait longer to begin having sex and more likely to use contraception when they do.

It’s best to start talking with children early about these things. Children are naturally curious about their bodies, and these days you have 3-year-old girls asking why they are different “down there” from their brothers or even boys at school. As parents, we need to understand that this curiosity is normal, and we should key in to it as an opportunity to start teaching them about their bodies and subsequently build a truthful, trusting relationship with them. An easy way to go about this is to make sure you never avoid a “teachable moment.”

How Healthy Is Sex?

Did you know the perks of sex extend well beyond the bedroom? Sex not only feels good. It can also be good for you. Find out how!

What Happened at Diddy "Freak Off" Parties?

 

Famed rapper and producer P. Diddy has been arrested on multiple charges.

The phrase "freak off" is mentioned 27 times in Diddy's shocking 14-page indictment accusing the music mogul of sex trafficking, racketeering conspiracy and transportation to engage in prostitution. 

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Man Having Sex With Horse

Castillo is apparently obsessed with Nadia. So obsessed that he returned to have sex with her just three months after he was jailed for having sex already.

What You Never Knew About Men And Sex

It’s a common stereotype that for men, sex is like pizza: even when it’s bad, it’s good. In the case study that inspired the book, one man came to Morgentaler complaining that he didn’t know how to stop faking orgasms with his girlfriend. He hadn’t been able to climax during intercourse for most of his life, but since he really cared about his new girlfriend, he’d resorted to faking it so that she wouldn’t get offended. Shocked? He’s not the only one. 

Kim Kardashian Talks Sex Positions, Accidents, And Boosting The Economy

Keeping Up With The Kardashians star spills all about her urination malfunctions, her favorite sexy times, how she is a boon to the economy, and reminisces about that sex tape! Kim was interviewed by model Cara Delevingne.

Favorite Sex Position: “From the back” – Obviously. Kim also admits there’s no such thing as “too big.”

On What She Thinks About During Sex: What it would be like to have sex with herself, naturally! “I’ve always wondered what that was like,” Kim giggles.

On Her Sex Tape: “Maybe that’s how some people heard about me but I didn’t launch my career off of that,” Kim proclaims. “That was twelve years ago, no 13 years ago now, so I just try to move on and put it in the past because I think that everyone in life does things they’re not proud of but you can’t sit and dwell on them forever.”

On The Worst Part Of Her Spanx Obsession: “I always pee all over my Spanx. It’s a disaster. They aren’t crotchless enough!” Some how I think “not crotchless” enough is a complaint Kim has about most items of her clothing.

On Her Career: “When someone asks me, ‘What do you do?’ under my breath I want to say, ‘Ask my f–king bank account what I do.’ But I would never say that to someone’s face.”

On How The Kardashians Are Boosting The Economy: “We’ve had more episodes than I Love Lucy! And I’m proud that we give so many people jobs. Like, our lighting guy handing me a key chain last season and said, ‘I just want to thank you – I’ve worked for you guys for eight seasons and you helped me buy a house.’ So I get a little bit frustrated at people not understanding. Like when they ask, ‘What do you do?’ I mean, what an uneducated question! And I just want to help change the perception that being on a reality show is such a negative thing.”

On Coveting Her Sister Kendall’s Supermodel Body: “You always want what you can’t have. I’d love to swap bodies with Kendall for just a week, just to look from that little bit higher up and fit into everything perfectly.” Oh Kim… I wish you would fit into everything you wear too. As it is, you seem to confused being able to purchase it with being able to wear it. And you also seem to delusionally believe you DO have Kendall’s body type.

Johnny Carson Sex Tape

Rumors are that there is a sex tape surfing the internet about +Johnny Carson. Johnny Carson apparently has a sex tape that's about to hit the market ... and it supposedly shows a very well-endowed talk show host with third wife Joanna Holland in the 1970's.

Rumors are that it opens with a naked dark-haired Carson masturbating by a pool -- then shows Joanna (with a bouffant hairdo) going all Linda Lovelace. It goes on for about 5 minutes -- then we're told it cuts to a 20-minute sex scene in Johnny's bedroom ... and Johnny does NOT hold back. Oh yeah, we're also told he's hung like a horse -- seriously, porn star status.

The owner of the sex tape apparently approached Carson's estate with the tape in September 2013, but they were not interested. Now it seems that the owner is trying to shop the tape to a private collector because selling it to a porn company is legally out of the question.

Sex Mistakes Women Make

The first sex mistake that women make is always assuming he's up for sex. This might hold true for teenage boys, but not men. Once they hit their mid-20s, many things compete for their energy. Work pressures, bills and everyday life can dampen his libido. You can’t just plug him in and expect him to perform on cue like a dildo. If he’s not into it, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t desire you anymore. He truly may not be in the mood.

The second mistake that women make is they think sex ends when he climaxes. Just because he’s fulfilled doesn’t mean you are. Let him know you haven’t finished and help him find ways to get you there with his hands or mouth if he’s consistently too wiped out to give you the attention you deserve.

The next mistake women make is not giving him any guidance. Pleasing a woman is no easy task. So help him out! Give him explicit directions – when, where, how hard, how fast and more. If you’re too embarrassed to cue him verbally, find another way. For example, if you’re watching a sex scene in a movie, say something like, “That’s a good move” or “That doesn’t do it for me.”

Last but not least, surprise him with something new and wild. If you want to take a walk on the wild side, talk first. Massages, concert tickets and flowers make great surprises. Blindfolds, handcuffs and a riding crop do not.

Mama June Offered Sex Deal

Here Comes Honey Boo Boo’s parents’ sex tape?! Vivid Entertainment‘s founder wrote a letter to Mama June Shannon, offering her “up to $1 million or more” to star in an adult film with Sugar Bear for Vivid’s BBW (Big Beautiful Women) genre.

He begins by lauding his company’s “award winning movies which include our library of celebrity sex tapes. They include films starring Kim Kardashian, Kendra Wilkinson, Tila Tequila, etc.” He then moves into the BBW pitch with Mama’s on-off-boyfriend, Mike “Sugar Bear” Thompson, who is also the father of Alana “Honey Boo Boo” Thompson. The Vivid exec promises, “We would make the experience an enjoyable one for both of you and give you as much creative input as you would like.”

It’s not clear whether June or Vivid shared the letter with TMZ (or both, maybe), but it’s out there now, along with a poll from TMZ asking if readers would watch a June/Sugar Bear sex tape. After 30,596 votes, the tally currently stands at 89 percent “No,” and 11 percent “Yes.”

Last we heard, Mama June and Sugar Bear weren’t even a couple. They broke up earlier in the year, and she accused him of cheating. Then the whole Mark McDaniel sex offender dating scandal happened. June said she and Sugar Bear were working on their relationship, but she also followed that up by calling Sugar Bear “a cheater and a big player.”

R. Kelly Has Been Indicted

I can't believe it myself! R. Kelly was charged with multiple counts of criminal sexual abuse involving multiple victims in a Chicago court Friday after decades of rumors and allegations that the R&B star was abusing women and underage girls.

Kelly has denied allegations of sexual misconduct involving women and underage girls for decades. Neither Kelly’s legal representative nor the Cook County prosecutor's office immediately responded to Fox News’ request for comment on the charges.

Wiz Khalifa Offered Sex Deal

I guess +Wiz Khalifa was offered a six figure sex deal. Our porn sources tell us vixen Carla Howe is very close to making a deal with Steve Hirsch at Vivid Entertainment. Carla’s totally down to sell the footage for the right price. Wiz Khalifa’s got a lot of problems — about six figures worth — the Playboy model he banged last week is close to cashing in big time on a sex tape … but there’s just one hang up.

TMZ broke the story … Wiz and Carla hooked up last week, took a bunch of pics, and — she says — shot footage of their bang sesh. Wiz admits doing the deed, but claims he had no idea it was being recorded. We’re told Carla’s footage shows Wiz looking right into her lens, and shooting with his own phone camera. It’s possible, we guess, he doesn’t remember — dude smokes kush like a chimney.

Then again … everyone has their price, and Hirsch has a great track record with sex tapes … said Kim Kardashian, Ray J, Farrah Abraham, Mimi and Nikko. But it makes no diff — sources close to Wiz tell us he’s not interested in the sex tape going public.

Atlanta Pimps Make Huge Profits

The survey revealed that 65 percent of the pimps in the Atlanta study group were black as well as 33 percent of the sex workers. This figure was second only to the Latino pimp population of 11 percent of the pimps and 10 percent being Latino sex workers. The report also stated that pimps are technologically savvy and use social networking to stay ahead of law enforcement.

An Urban Institute study of sex trafficking from 2003–2007 ranks Atlanta as the No. 1 city in the nation for sex trafficking. The study estimates that pimps in Atlanta make as much as $33,000 a week. The study examined sex trafficking in eight cities: Atlanta, Dallas, Denver, Kansas City, Miami, Seattle, San Diego, Calif., and Washington, D.C., to try to determine the size and scope of human trafficking and its economic impact. The results are startling and offer a dark view of Atlanta, the home of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

Will R. Kelly's New Lawyer Get Him Acquitted?

 

R. Kelly’s new lawyer asked for an acquittal in his sex crimes case on Thursday, February 17, arguing that prosecutors were influenced by the Me Too movement in bringing charges that didn’t fit the allegations against him. Prosecutors were “invigorated by an influential social movement determined to punish centuries of male misbehavior through symbolic prosecutions of high-profile men,” Jennifer Bonjean, who successfully appealed Bill Cosby’s conviction, wrote in court filings. 

Jennifer Lopez Talks About Her Sex Scenes

 

Jennifer Lopez has appeared in some steamy sex scenes during her career. One of her sexiest moments was in her 2015 film The Boy Next Door. Here’s what she had to say about her sex scenes.

Jennifer Lopez likes to know exactly what’s going to happen before she films a sex scene. She says knowing what is about to happen beforehand gives her the confidence she needs to perform her role to the best of her ability.

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Certain Things A Man Want In Life

One thing we can agree on, is all men want money. What else is it we can agree on that we can say men want in life? Many husbands admit that they want sex from their wife. However, there are a lot more things men are craving.

Most men simply just want some room to be by themselves. Though every man is different and the specific things that make them happy, all men are created the same in some form of way.

Money, Sex, Cars, And Drugs

It seems in life, that all people think about is money, sex, cars, drugs, and Facebook. With out it, were would we be? We all need money for sure and transportation to get from place to place.

Why Do Black Men Love White Women More?

There seem to be a extreme number of black men starting to date white women more and more. Does being able to date white women equate to success for a Black man? Well, even comedian, Nick Cannon says that this is the reason Black women are overlooked for white women.