You have probably heard a lot of people say that “love hurts” — and we all tend to follow the crowd and believe that “love hurts” but this isn’t true.
I think Love is the most incredible thing in the world — but sometimes we become bitter, we blame love — we start losing hope in love. The worst part about the heartbreak is that we lose ourselves trying to hold on to that person who doesn’t care at all.
Everyone says love hurts, but that is not true. Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Everyone gets these things confused with love, but in reality, love is the only thing in this world that covers up all pain and makes someone feel wonderful again.
I know how it feels to be broken. Been there and experienced that kind of pain. When you find yourself in a similar situation, how do you begin to trust someone new?
It does take a lot of courage for a person to open their heart to someone new because we all have that fear inside of us due to bad past experience. But don’t let your past be an issue in your present and future.
Love truly, be fearless — accept the person the way they are — because true love sees beyond all imperfections. Someone who truly loves you sees what a mess you can be, how moody you can get, and how hard you can be to handle but still wants you.
Love makes you happy in a way that you have never been happy before. It heals your broken parts and lifts you up. Don’t let things and circumstances change you into someone you’re not.
Many women felt beaten down and of no value, saying: “He made me believe I was worthless and alone,” and, “I felt I had done something wrong and I deserved it.”
The threat of bodily and emotional harm is powerful, and abusers use this to control and keep women trapped. A common tactic of manipulative partners is to separate their victim from family and friends.
We’ve all been there before — you meet a nice, beautiful woman, go on a date and after the end of the date, you’re not quite sure whether she’s into you or not. Sometimes it’s difficult to decipher a woman’s behaviors especially if she’s giving you “mixed” signals.
Learning how to spot the signs women exhibit when they’re into you is important so that you don’t waste precious time and mental energy chasing someone that doesn’t like you.
A conceited woman loves to talk about herself, bragging and name-dropping. She often can't stand to hear the accomplishments of others. She prefers to interject and direct the conversation back on herself. She best describes herself in reaction to others, trying to one-up them; always seeking to prove she's the best.
If you love yourself too much you don't grow and change, because you see nothing wrong with yourself. Plus, if you start thinking you are better than other people, you will miss out on some pretty great people.
Don't try to make people like you through achievements.
Try to see the value in everyone.
Focus your attention outwards.
Engage in small talk and listen.
Ask for immediate feedback.
Be warm.
Collaborate, don't dominate.
Work on your body language.
Every guy is different...there is no one ultimate weapon to make guy fall in love... however usually the same type of soul will get along... If you are good person you will get along with good guy however if you are not good person you will get along with not good person too.
DO THINGS FROM YOUR HEART
Not the following:
1. Not thinking how much can I milk him for a dinner
2. Not whining all the time about your problems
3. Not comparing him to other men
4. Not putting him down all the time
5. Not Using sex as a weapon of mass destruction
6. Not expecting him to bail you out of your personal baggage
7. Not Dragging him to girl flicks
8. Not being spontaneous
9. Not taking 2 hours to get ready and expect him to wait
10. Not cleaning up the bathroom after your beautification process
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