Everyone talk these days on how they get it out of the mud so called. The real question should be, do they know how to hit rock bottom and get back up? It's hard to hit the bottom and get up. Most people can't handle the stress of failing.
Failure is directly linked to fear, this is why people procrastinate over fear and then this leads to panic… making failure so painful. Some are just scared to take chances after loosing. For most failure hurts… it can hurt their pride or even knock their confidence; this happens because whatever you are setting out to do you start with inspiration and motivation – this quickly transcends into expectation… your vision is over optimistic; you haven’t engaged strategy into your thoughts.
You start with such high expectations… then reality kicks in and what you can envision and what you are experiencing becomes polarised and this starts to put doubts into your mind, just one percent of doubt initiates a downward spiral and then fear and panic sets in… once this happens failure is not observed as a learning process but rather a painful experience.
Failure is directly linked to fear, this is why people procrastinate over fear and then this leads to panic… making failure so painful. Some are just scared to take chances after loosing. For most failure hurts… it can hurt their pride or even knock their confidence; this happens because whatever you are setting out to do you start with inspiration and motivation – this quickly transcends into expectation… your vision is over optimistic; you haven’t engaged strategy into your thoughts.
You start with such high expectations… then reality kicks in and what you can envision and what you are experiencing becomes polarised and this starts to put doubts into your mind, just one percent of doubt initiates a downward spiral and then fear and panic sets in… once this happens failure is not observed as a learning process but rather a painful experience.
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