The first sex mistake that women make is always assuming he's up for sex. This might hold true for teenage boys, but not men. Once they hit their mid-20s, many things compete for their energy. Work pressures, bills and everyday life can dampen his libido. You can’t just plug him in and expect him to perform on cue like a dildo. If he’s not into it, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t desire you anymore. He truly may not be in the mood.
The second mistake that women make is they think sex ends when he climaxes. Just because he’s fulfilled doesn’t mean you are. Let him know you haven’t finished and help him find ways to get you there with his hands or mouth if he’s consistently too wiped out to give you the attention you deserve.
The next mistake women make is not giving him any guidance. Pleasing a woman is no easy task. So help him out! Give him explicit directions – when, where, how hard, how fast and more. If you’re too embarrassed to cue him verbally, find another way. For example, if you’re watching a sex scene in a movie, say something like, “That’s a good move” or “That doesn’t do it for me.”
Last but not least, surprise him with something new and wild. If you want to take a walk on the wild side, talk first. Massages, concert tickets and flowers make great surprises. Blindfolds, handcuffs and a riding crop do not.
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