If you do not open your mouth you will not get what it is you want. Open your mouth! Say something if negotiations aren't going the way you like. How often do you express to your partner exactly what you want or why you want it? When was the last time you shared with your partner how you feel when you get the thing you need? Well, how can you expect to get what it is you want if you don’t ask for it? How can you even expect to receive the things you say you want if you are not physically, mentally, emotionally or spiritually present within the relationship to receive them?
Now, there are times when you must remove yourself from a relationship. However, this is not what I am talking about. I am talking about when you remove yourself by taking your mind, your body, your heart, your soul out of where you are being loved because you are not getting what you have not asked for. Removing yourself in that way is not only self-destructive, but you can ensure you will never get the very thing you say you want. Is it because you may not believe you deserve those things you long to ask for?
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